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Were someone to call a woman a “loser” for being, say, a career grad student or some kind of lowbrow service professional, I feel it would be met with cries of “Hey, at least she’s trying! ” Of course, the joke’s on them, because justifying someone’s career choice undermines that person’s freedom of choice, and chastising one group for judging another while encouraging the same thing among your own group is the very opposite of equality.
Unfashionable as it may be, I’m going to go ahead and say that, in 2013, men need to stop dating losers. When women deride a man as being a “useless loser,” what they really seem to be complaining about is someone who blindly, uncompromisingly places his own prerogatives above all else, often at the expense of others.
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Whether you’re just starting to fall for him or are finding yourself getting into a relationship with a known player, it’s important to let him know early on that you’re not interested in his antics.
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So if women are being coached to play hard to get, and men are playing the same game, what does this mean for male/female relationships?It says something about society as a whole, in that men have never really valued drive and success as selection criteria and we’re all kind of OK with that.Mothers instruct their daughters to find a “nice, successful boy,” but fathers high-five their sons when they bring home the prom queen.It’s also (sadly) kind of presumed that men will settle down as they age and choose higher quality women, as though it’s a concept we as men had the good sense to invent and that the womenfolk would never figure out were it not for our guidance.
Additionally, despite tolerating men calling women all sorts of awful things for centuries, society, curiously enough, won’t stand for men referring to women as “losers” or “useless.” I’ve just never heard it.Dating - Ask Men Online Dating Sites 1/6 Dating Tips 2/6 Single Guy's Opinion 3/6 Single Girl's Opinion 4/6.